The title of
the keynote speech given by former United States Secretary of Labor, Elaine
Chao, in Shanghai recently -- "Chinese Heart, American Mind and Global Dream" --
said as much about the woman as it did about the nature of her talk.
A
Chinese immigrant, Chao was the first Asian American woman in history to be
appointed to a US President's cabinet, serving as the 24th United States
Secretary of Labor from 2001.
Since leaving office at the start of this
year, Chao has channelled her understanding of Western and Asian cultures into
promoting the Sino-US relationship.
"I am a product of the two cultures,"
she told about 600 Fudan University students and teachers last week when she
visited the school.
Chao's visit was organized for her investiture as an
honorary professor of the prestigious Chinese university and she took the
opportunity to deliver an inspiring speech in full academic regalia.
Though the lecture hall had only 400 seats, the aisles and doorways were
packed with fans eager to hear what she had to say.
"She has not
forgotten her Chinese roots," said Deng Feng, a school staff member and audience
member.
The stylish Chao walked into the hall on the arm of her beloved
father and waved her hand toward the students in a confident smile.
They
were inspired by her grace and dignity and greeted her with a warm and
enthusiastic applause.
"I'm very lucky I come from a wonderful family,"
she said in a speech which focused a lot on family values.
Despite her
significant achievements, Chao remains modest and attributed her success to her
parents' love and rigorous education.
She comes from a family of six
daughters, each very successful in their different fields. All graduated from
prestigious universities and four were from Harvard, including Chao.
Chao's mother and father are typical Chinese parents practicing
determination, diligence and sacrifice. They taught their daughters Chinese
philosophy and values which enabled them to advance as a family and even triumph
in a foreign land.
Chao's father James Chao was born in a small, rural
farming village in Shanghai's Jiading District and her mother Ruth Mulan Chu was
born into an affluent family in Anhui Province. They married in Taiwan where
Chao (1953) and two other sisters were born. The family moved to the United
States when Chao was eight years old.
"As you may imagine, our initial
years in America were very difficult," Chao said.
When they first landed
in America, the family of five lived in a small one-bedroom
apartment.
They didn't speak English, couldn't eat American food, and
didn't understand American culture or traditions.
"At that time, people
of Asian descent comprised less than 1 percent of America's entire population,"
Chao said.
"I am a product of the two cultures. I'm very lucky I come
from a wonderful family."
They had no relatives or nearby friends and
were often the first, or only, Asians many Americans had met.
When Chao
went to school for the first time, she bowed at teachers to show respect in the
Chinese tradition. But her classmates scorned her as a foreigner because they
couldn't understand her behavior.
Similar culture shocks were common. But
half a century later, the family has successfully moved up the rungs of
acceptance and into the mainstream.
Chao's father eventually founded his
own shipping company, called Foremost, to freight goods between the United
States and Taiwan. Her mother acquired a master's degree in the US in her 50s
and all six daughters excelled in different fields.
"Throughout the
period of great difficulty, my parents always maintained their optimism and
confidence that a better tomorrow awaited us," Chao said. "I was always
positive."
"Though we had little money, we possessed life's most precious
asset -- hope! Hope for a better future which enabled us to sustain and
eventually overcome our adversities."
Chao's father worked three jobs to make ends meet. Yet every weekend and
holiday, the couple set aside time to take the family to the free sights of New
York City, including public parks, Central Park, the Brooklyn and Bronx
Botanical Gardens to broaden their horizon.
Later after her father
achieved great success and earned a generous income, the parents still
maintained modest and frugal ways with their children.
The six daughters
had to help clean and vacuum the house, wash their clothes and weed the plants
even though they had gardeners.
The 300-meter U-shaped asphalt driveway
in front of their house was even paved by the six daughters under their parents'
direction.
Another familiar and treasured childhood scene was the Chao
household dinner parties. Chao's father was very gregarious and enjoyed
entertaining family and friends at home. Chao and her sisters were assigned to
greet the guests at the door, take their wraps or coats and present tea.
During dinner, they would act as the waiting staff, bringing each dish
to the table, pouring the wine, clearing away the dishes and courteously helping
as little hostesses.
"I enjoyed these occasions and thought they were
good opportunities to practice good manners, hone my social skills and make my
parents proud," Chao recalled.
The parents also made each vacation and
outing an educational experience to broaden their children's horizon and improve
their independence.
The six daughters were involved in every aspect of
planning for the family outing: researching various destinations, comparing
hotels and their respective packages and prices, booking the airplane
reservations, arranging ground transportation and other trip details.
"My
mother is the foundation of our family. Everything our family has been able to
achieve in America has been due to her."
After her work had spanned the
public, private and non-profit sectors, Chao reached her career peak on January
11, 2001 when President George W. Bush announced her nomination as Labor
Secretary. But on the same day, her beloved mother was diagnosed with lymphoma.
"Characteristically in her unselfish manner, amidst the excitement, she
said nothing, not wanting to spoil the moment for her family," Chao
said.
The mother attended Chao's swearing-in at the Oval Office the week
she started her chemotherapy treatment, despite the wrenching side effects. Chu
died on August 2, 2007, which left Chao in deep grief.
"My mother is the
foundation of our family," Chao has said in public many times. "Everything our
family has been able to achieve in America has been due to her determination,
sacrifice, diligence, optimism and love."
But she herself led a life
totally different from her mother and she married quite late. Chao wed Senator
Mitch McConnell of Kentucky, the Republican leader, in 1993 and became
stepmother to McConnell's three children from a previous marriage.
Asked
by Time magazine whether the two discussed policy in their personal time, Chao
replied, "No, we're much too busy. We both love what we're doing. When we have
time together, we talk about college football, about getting together with
friends -- the usual kind of stuff -- like who takes out the garbage. I have to
confess, I do."
Chao was the only member of President Bush's cabinet to
serve a full eight years. She avoided the controversies that surrounded several
other members of the administration and was asked to stay on for a second term
after Bush won reelection.
Her striving and success has not only been a
credit to her parents but also an inspiration for people of Asian origin in
America.
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